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"God sets the lonely in families" - Psalm 68:6



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

MERRY CHRISTMAS 2011!


As we pack away our Thanksgiving decorations & prepare for the Christmas season, our hearts are filled with gratitude. Our family has experienced God’s goodness over & over again in the midst of the joys & challenges of the past year. 2011 was filled with miracles & trials. Laughter & tears. Travels & rest. This year we said good-bye to many dear friends who lost their battles with cancer, but are finally home. Their lives remind us that we are just passing through. One of our favorite verses recently has been, “The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble, He cares for those who trust in Him” (Nahum 1:7).

Jordan turned nine in March & started fourth grade this fall at Arroyo Elementary. It’s so thrilling to watch his inquisitive mind “come alive” as he loves to learn (& asks questions all day long)! He is passionate about reading & shocked our public library volunteers this summer when he completed his third twenty-hour reading chart in less than three weeks! He was recently elected to our school community service committee (“Ripple Kids”) & was thrilled to win his first election!


Aidan turned eight in June & is in third grade. He keeps us laughing all day long! He is incredibly expressive, animated & loves his new kitty (which he named Maui) & playing baseball.


He traveled with Mike & Jenni to El Salvador this summer & collected over 4,000 Silly Bandz (rubber bracelets) to give away in the orphanages. He loved serving in El Salvador & keeps begging to go back! Both boys were featured on the front cover of our local paper for their Silly Bandz project. We are so proud of them!


Jenni is blessed to volunteer in both of the boys’ classrooms. She also leads the Moms in Touch prayer group for our elementary school every week. She is honored to serve as the Outreach Director for All Blessings Intl. Adoptions & led two life-changing orphan outreach teams to El Salvador & Guatemala this year.


Jenni was blessed to attend The Christian Alliance for Orphans Summit in KY this May & oversees The So Cal Orphan Care Network. As most of you know, our adoption experience has caused us to become passionate about orphan care & advocacy. We were invited to speak on adoption/orphan care in our recent Orphan Sunday church service and invite you to listen to the message through the link posted below. Our adoption journey has been exciting, emotional, powerful & frustrating. We continue to wait for a referral of a baby girl from South Korea. Pray for our hearts as we ache for our daughter & for the millions of orphans in need of “forever families” around the world.

We are so grateful for our church family, The Village Church of Irvine (VCI) & are excited about the influence VCI has in our community & world. Mike is blessed to serve as an elder & graduated this June from a two-year biblical leadership-training course led by the VCI pastors.


We are honored to oversee the missions & orphan care ministries at VCI. We love partnering with amazing organizations & families that are impacting men, women & children suffering from HIV/AIDS, homelessness, poverty & the orphan crisis throughout the world with hope. Lives are being changed! We hosted many missionaries, friends & families in our home this year & our doors are always open! We love being a “global family” (as our license plate reads)!

Mike continues to work as a Line Producer producing infomercials for Script To Screen Productions in Santa Ana. He loves his staff & is grateful to be part of the production department. He also oversees our side business, Straight Street Production Services (production rentals). Most of the time, he can be found riding bikes or working on elaborate school projects with the boys, cooking a gourmet meal for family or friends or enjoying our beautiful yard.

We were blessed to travel on many trips this year. Jenni enjoyed her annual college girls’ reunion in Carmel - always a highlight of her year! We visited Jenni’s dad’s ranch (north of San Luis Obispo) this spring & adopted our newest pet, Maui (who was just 3 weeks old)!


We were blessed to spend time in Palm Desert with Jenni’s mom & also spent a week at a dessert time-share this August (thanks to good friends!).


Mike & the boys drove to Reno this summer to pick up Mike’s dad & drive him back to our home for an extended visit (an annual tradition).


We also helped Mike’s mom to relocate to OR this fall & got to know the 5 FWY well! We enjoyed the breathtaking drive & loved visiting with Mike’s sisters & family.


We celebrated our 17th anniv in November in a quiet house (thanks to Grandma!) before Jenni flew off to Guatemala (her sixth overseas trip in two years!). Thanksgiving may be behind us, but our hearts are overflowing with gratitude. We are constantly amazed at God’s faithfulness in the midst of every circumstance. We are grateful for each of you as we celebrate the birth of a precious baby boy, who was born in a manger, adopted by his family & changed the world forever!

Captivated in Guatemala (with reflections on our adoption journey)...


Last week I (Jenni) had the privilege of leading a team of nine volunteers to serve in the beautiful country of Guatemala. As our team ascended into the air towards Guatemala City on American Airlines, I opened my journal and reflected on the faithfulness of God. My adoption journal has captured the incredible journey that began in June, 2007. At that time, we believed that God had called us to adopt our next child. We were excited about our adoption journey and were completely unaware of the adventure and calling that lay ahead.


Mailing our adoption documents for El Salvador (January, 2008). Our adoption in El Salvador eventually failed and we lost over $15,000.

As I look back over the past four and a half years, I am simply amazed at all that God has done. We believed that our adoption adventure would consist of opening our home to a child, but this journey has radically opened our hearts to orphans all over the world. The Lord has birthed an indescribable passion and calling in our lives for adoption and orphan advocacy. He has opened doors and created opportunities that have been life changing! Our adoption story has been filled with heartache, deception, shock, tears and confusion. However, it has also been filled with miracles, divine appointments, new friendships and opportunities to speak, write and lead teams to journey directly into God's heart for orphans.

As I flipped through the journal pages and was reminded of the emotions, miracles and adventures of the past four and a half years, I was in awe. I realized (to my surprise) that this trip to Guatemala had been scheduled exactly two years after my first orphan outreach trip to El Salvador. During that trip I fell in love with the El Salvadorian children, but became aware of heart wrenching issues related to orphans as well as unethical practices in adoptions. It was also on that trip that I was introduced to my dear friend Lucy Armistead, who later invited me to join the staff of All Blessings Intl. Adoptions as their International Outreach Coordinator.


My first trip to El Salvador... falling in love with the children! Little Carolina completely captured my heart!

I have now had the privilege of leading six orphan outreach teams (in two years) - four to El Salvador and two to Guatemala. These teams have had the opportunity to bring gifts, touch, love and hope to hundreds of orphans. It has truly been an honor to serve in six orphanages and to touch the indelible faces of abandoned and abused children. I have fallen in love over and over again and my heart has been broken for the things that break the heart of God.

While our family continues to wait for the referral of a baby girl from Asia, the Lord is quickening our hearts for His orphans. It has been so exciting to birth "Sprouts," an orphan care ministry in our home church. We currently have seven families in our church who are either in the process or are considering adoption or foster care. Wow! Mike and I have been humbled to speak on adoption/orphan care in our church and helped to organize a blood drive to raise funds for our church adoption fund last year.


Speaking in a panel on adoption/orphan care at The Village Church of Irvine and volunteering with Show Hope.

It has been a thrill to form The So Cal Orphan Care Network in the past year. Our network currently has over fifty leaders connected to our group. I have been blessed to represent All Blessings Intl. Adoptions at various venues and attended The Christian Alliance for Orphans Summit in KY this spring. It has been an unbelievable journey and our hearts are overflowing with gratitude. We are especially grateful that both of our boys been able to serve in El Salvador and have gained hearts for orphans as well. As I journaled, prayed and prepared to lead this team to serve "the least of these" in Guatemala, I was reminded of the faithful hand of God. He promises to lead and guide His children if we trust Him with all of our hearts. He has been faithful to our family and has kept His promises in our lives.


The boys loved serving in El Salvador (Aidan in July, 2011 and Jordan in March, 2010).

The trip to Guatemala this past week was so impactful that it is difficult to describe in words. The Guatemalan people captivated us with their joyful spirits and grateful hearts, despite their poverty levels and heart wrenching experiences of extreme tragedies. It has been said over and over again by our team members, but it must be repeated. We traveled to Guatemala to "bless the people," but they blessed us beyond belief. Their faces will remain in our hearts forever. Their words of gratitude, expressed through tears, are like hidden treasures in our minds. The precious children in the orphanage touched us deeply. Their stories broke our hearts and caused many team members to weep, but their joy, laughter and hugs healed us.

As I reflect on the past six orphan outreach teams, it is clear that each team has left an imprint on my heart. However, this team was especially unique. This trip was extremely emotional due to many personal losses in the lives of our team members. While we spent many team meetings laughing and joking together, there were also many tears. At times, our team members were able to relate to some of the painful losses of the Guatemalan people, and that was priceless. I watched this team come together in a deep and powerful way to support one another, pray for one another and even carry me through some very emotional moments.

As we ascended back into the air and headed towards home, I realized that I had been captivated. Captivated by the passionate expressions of love and gratitude that our team experienced through the Guatemalan people. But I had also been captivated by God's love and faithfulness in my life, clearly seen through my journal reflections as well as His sovereignly hand-picked team, who selflessly served the Guatemalan people and will remain forever in my heart.


To read stories and view photos from our trip, visit our orphan outreach blog at:
www.allblessingswest.blogspot.com

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Link to Mike & Jenni's Adoption Messages


On November 6th, 2011, our church was honored to partner with hundreds of churches around the world in celebrating "Orphan Sunday." Mike and I were humbled to speak on "Caring for Orphans" with a panel (which included three members from our missions board). Please click on the link below to hear the forty minute message. Note: Mike gives a brief introduction, Glynn Smith (founder of Beacon of Hope Ministries, South Africa) speaks on the issue of AIDS/HIV and orphans, and Jenni addresses practical ways to serve orphans at the end.

http://www.villagechurchirvine.com/sermons/sermon/missions-sunday---orphan-sunday


Mike also preached a sermon on "God's Heart for Adoption" in February, 2011. It was a powerful message, which included some personal thoughts on our adoption journey. To listen to his message, click here:

http://www.villagechurchirvine.com/sermons/sermon/adopted-in-christ

The Vision

God spoke this vision regarding our adoption journey to Barbara Lange on March 26, 2010...

"Jenni,


I have made the decision to speak our boldly when God speaks to me. Last night as I was washing the dishes I received this "vision" of you. I hesitate to use the word "vision," but what I saw was a slide of your life. As I watched the show in my mind I began to cry because I was so touched by what I saw. You and I have shared many tears these last couple of years, both sorrow and joy. The attachment is what I saw.

FRAME 1

Jenni sitting at the South Coast Community Church reception desk with the photo album of her courtship and engagement to Mike.

FRAME 2

Jenni performing the gospel message in mime at New Harvest Community Church, showing her heart for the lost and oppressed. Jenni performing the gospel in mime on missions trips everywhere she is able to go. Her Father rejoicing at her obedience and passion.

FRAME 3

The anguished look of a woman desperately wanting to have children. Unsuccessful fertility treatements.

FRAME 4

God watching over His daughter, His heart breaking as tears flow down her cheeks. He whispers in her ear, "My child, I know how broken you feel, but I have a great plan and purpose for your life. This anguish, this heartbreak, this pain will subside. Joy is on its' way. I needed you to suffer in this way because of My plan is for you. You are going to be an advocate for international adoptions. You are going to spread my gospel this way.

FRAME 5

The births of Jordan and Aidan! At last a MOM!

FRAME 6

Having experienced the heartbreak of infertility, Jenni's passion for adoption grows.


FRAME 7

Jenni's passion for missions and adoption begin to fuse.


FRAME 8

The Ramseys start the adoption process for a daughter.

FRAME 9

Jenni goes to Washington DC and connects with adoption leaders. Relationships follow, teamwork begins. Jenni begins a new chapter in her life in the intl. adoption network.

FRAME 10

The slow adoption process is agonizing to the Ramseys.

FRAME 11

Jenni leads a missions team to El Salvador and learns sad news about El Salvador adoptions and specifically their own plans. Heartbroken again, but resolved to press on.

FRAME 12

More networking with intl. adoptions, hope for their daughter and another trip to El Salvador. Jordan goes to El Salvador. The orphans are overwhelmed and ecstatic that Jenni returns. Jenni and Jordan build "forever friendships and family" in El Salvador. Jenni's passion increases.

FRAME 13

Jenni prepares for third trip to El Salvador in one year. Amazing things happen.

FRAME 14 - THE FINAL FRAME...

Mike and Jenni, standing now, older, graying hair, surrounded by their sons and their wives, their daughters and their husbands and their grandchildren. Below them are thousands of children joyously celebrating Jenni's life. Her passion to follow her Father's call and purpose on her life is fulfilled. These thousands of children represent all of the orphans, adoptions and ripple affect of her life's work.

A work that could not be accomplished without the pain, suffering and brokeness she endured trying to become a mom.


Well done, my good and faithful servant."

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