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Friday, September 7, 2012

She's Ours!

After waiting for five years, two months and three days, we finally have our daughter!  Happy Gotcha Day, Hailey!

Today we woke up feeling excited, nervous, emotional and scared.  We were so uncertain of how Hailey would respond when leaving her foster mom.  There were so many questions running through our minds.  We had a wonderful morning talking and praying together as we prepared for the big moment.  Our boys have been amazing this week and they were prepared for Hailey's reactions, whether it be laughter, screams or tears.


It was such a strange feeling to walk out our door, knowing the next time I  passed through the entry, Hailey would be in our arms!

When we arrived at the adoption office, Hailey and her foster mom were waiting for us on a couch.  She looked so adorable in her aqua outfit, which matched mine perfectly!  I just wanted to scoop her up! Hailey seemed very calm when we walked in and didn't cry when seeing us.  The social worker commented that she appeared to be ready, and that tears and grieving would be normal.  We were presented with more gifts from the agency, and Hailey's foster mom gave us formula, food, clothing, shoes, etc.  Wow!  We're actually considering buying another duffel bag since we have so much to bring home!  We signed some official paperwork and received Hailey's passport and documents.




We are now Hailey's official guardians since our adoption will not be finalized until approximately six months.  Korea requires three post-placement visits with a social worker, then we will complete the finalization in court in Orange County.

These are the first photos taken with Hailey after leaving the offices:



Hailey's transition has gone fairly smoothly.  There have definitely been a lot of tears, but she is warming up to us quickly.  She LOVES to be snuggled and insists on being nestled into our chests.  She also likes the Ergo carrier, and we decided to venture out in the afternoon for a stroll.  Hailey is very curious and loves looking at everything.  We went to "COEX," the largest underground mall in Asia, located in the Gangnam District/World Trade Center (just a few blocks from the guest house). We tried "potato pizza" at Mr. Pizza and it was delicious!  We found out that Hailey likes pizza.  Actually, she likes to eat whatever we're eating!




We are so grateful that Hailey is attaching so quickly.  We've captured a few smiles, adorable baby words and even some yelps of laughter.  She loves watching the boys and seems to be taking in her new world, faces, sounds and smells very quickly.  We will post more photos soon.  We have been overwhelmed by all of the support that we have received this week from friends and family all over the world!  Thank you for celebrating Hailey's Gotcha Day with us!

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The Vision

God spoke this vision regarding our adoption journey to Barbara Lange on March 26, 2010...

"Jenni,


I have made the decision to speak our boldly when God speaks to me. Last night as I was washing the dishes I received this "vision" of you. I hesitate to use the word "vision," but what I saw was a slide of your life. As I watched the show in my mind I began to cry because I was so touched by what I saw. You and I have shared many tears these last couple of years, both sorrow and joy. The attachment is what I saw.

FRAME 1

Jenni sitting at the South Coast Community Church reception desk with the photo album of her courtship and engagement to Mike.

FRAME 2

Jenni performing the gospel message in mime at New Harvest Community Church, showing her heart for the lost and oppressed. Jenni performing the gospel in mime on missions trips everywhere she is able to go. Her Father rejoicing at her obedience and passion.

FRAME 3

The anguished look of a woman desperately wanting to have children. Unsuccessful fertility treatements.

FRAME 4

God watching over His daughter, His heart breaking as tears flow down her cheeks. He whispers in her ear, "My child, I know how broken you feel, but I have a great plan and purpose for your life. This anguish, this heartbreak, this pain will subside. Joy is on its' way. I needed you to suffer in this way because of My plan is for you. You are going to be an advocate for international adoptions. You are going to spread my gospel this way.

FRAME 5

The births of Jordan and Aidan! At last a MOM!

FRAME 6

Having experienced the heartbreak of infertility, Jenni's passion for adoption grows.


FRAME 7

Jenni's passion for missions and adoption begin to fuse.


FRAME 8

The Ramseys start the adoption process for a daughter.

FRAME 9

Jenni goes to Washington DC and connects with adoption leaders. Relationships follow, teamwork begins. Jenni begins a new chapter in her life in the intl. adoption network.

FRAME 10

The slow adoption process is agonizing to the Ramseys.

FRAME 11

Jenni leads a missions team to El Salvador and learns sad news about El Salvador adoptions and specifically their own plans. Heartbroken again, but resolved to press on.

FRAME 12

More networking with intl. adoptions, hope for their daughter and another trip to El Salvador. Jordan goes to El Salvador. The orphans are overwhelmed and ecstatic that Jenni returns. Jenni and Jordan build "forever friendships and family" in El Salvador. Jenni's passion increases.

FRAME 13

Jenni prepares for third trip to El Salvador in one year. Amazing things happen.

FRAME 14 - THE FINAL FRAME...

Mike and Jenni, standing now, older, graying hair, surrounded by their sons and their wives, their daughters and their husbands and their grandchildren. Below them are thousands of children joyously celebrating Jenni's life. Her passion to follow her Father's call and purpose on her life is fulfilled. These thousands of children represent all of the orphans, adoptions and ripple affect of her life's work.

A work that could not be accomplished without the pain, suffering and brokeness she endured trying to become a mom.


Well done, my good and faithful servant."

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